Naughty in N’awlins

Sexplore with Den Temin how to be Naughty in N’awlins…

 July 4-9 2023

Dare to Sexplore

I will be teaching sexual education seminars, bdsm coaching, and offering group / private sexology sessions. Take a peek below to get detailed information and scroll down for full private session descriptions & schedules.

Workshops are experiential ~ hands-on with a cost of $400 (pre-registration) $450 (@ NIN) per couple / $600 (pre-registration) $650 (@NIN) per triad and have a maximum capacity. They fill up fast (we had to turn couples away in previous conventions). *except for The art of Nuru massage workshops. This has an extra cost due to materials.

This year we are offering group private workshop on specific subjects that have been requested. These workshops are not listed in the 2023 sched app. You are welcome to register to them if there is space. They will be taught in the same room as the ones listed in the schedule (in the main Astor hotel). The cost is the same except for *Drip with Pleasure: Introduction to Temperature Play This has an extra cost due to materials.

Couples Private sessions / BDSM are more intimate and cater to your specific needs and desires. During these sessions you have my full attention where we can talk about anything you want, or I can teach you any sexual technique in the privacy of your own space. The demand is growing for personalized bdsm coaching. BDSM sessions will be done at the dungeon. I have over 20 years experience in the kink scene. I have been a dungeon monitor and have ample switch~versatile experience. I identify as a Domme but can easily support you to develop and grow as a dominant / submissive / or switch. Each private or bdsm session is minimum one hour, costs $500 (pre-registration) $550 (@ NIN) per couple / per hour, are by appointment only, and with very limited time slots available. 

If you would like to secure your space for either a paid group private session and/or a couple private session please pre-register before the convention by completing the form below. Take advantage of pre-registration prices. Remaining spaces will be filled during the convention on a first come-first serve basis with an increased fee. 

In order to pre-register before the convention please click here to fill in this form
If your inquiry is urgent please send us an email to: dtemin@sexplorewithdentemin.com or give us a call at 647-608-7397.

 

Workshops 

Naughty folks asked and we listened…for the first time ever we will be offering a series of Pre-NIN zoom virtual workshops that will ensure your success at the convention. We are covering four different topics that usually come up as obstacles for couples during large conventions. Learn the skills, and tools you need to confidently make this year the best convention you have ever participated in!

It’s not working! Overcoming performance anxiety & freezing up
One of the greatest sexual and emotional obstacles today is performance anxiety. It is common, and it will happen to everyone in varying degrees. For some people it will mean not being able to get an erection, for others it will present as rapid ejaculation, and for many folks performance anxiety will prevent them from having an orgasm or enjoying the sexual experience. Many couples that are in the lifestyle prefer to keep quiet about performance anxiety but to make sexual concerns & performance anxiety secretive, or to internalize and repress them, only makes the issues worse. We need to start talking about it! Those who experience sexual performance anxiety on a regular basis know how crippling and debilitating worrying about it can be. As a board certified clinical sexologist with 16 years of experience in the field of human sexuality, I have successfully supported couples to overcome performance anxiety to reach fulfilling and pleasurable sexual lives. This confidential workshop will focus on providing the most current information relating to performance anxiety with and how to overcome it. You will learn diverse techniques that will help you relax to start connecting with your sexual body without the use of prescription medicine.
Pre-NIN Zoom Only Saturday June 24th 12:00 – 1:30 pm EST


Mapping your Desires
Sometimes our desires live in our fantasies and we can’t express them. Sometimes you don’t even know how to put words to what you want to do. You know you want to Do The Thing – but what exactly is The Thing? Being able to recognize and communicate our desires is a fundamental element of sexy play. It moves us out of the I dunno, what do you want to do moment and into the that was the most amazing moment. In this workshop, we’ll be tapping into and unpacking some of our core erotic drives, figuring out the keys to bringing those desires to life and learning how to share those keys with our partners. We will also tackle how we can help our partners speak their desire, and troubleshoot some common challenges to unlocking our erotic imagination. Get ready to map your desires, express your fantasies, and make them the hottest sex scenes. 
Pre-NIN Zoom Only Saturday June 24th 3:00 – 4:30 pm EST

Dealing with the green-eyed jealousy monster Who hasn’t been bitten by the green-eyed monster? Jealousy is an issue that develops in many relationships and it usually creeps into lifestyle relationships in the most surprising ways.  Let’s overcome those obstacles together and transform jealousy into an emotion that supports the growth and intimacy of your relationship without affecting your lifestyle! In this workshop you will learn tools to support you to deal with jealousy and to manage it effectively so that you can strengthen your romantic bonds, instead of creating anxiety and insecurity in your relationships. We will look at why certain situations and people create emotional reactions that are the secret ingredients at the heart of jealousy, and will give you practical techniques that will help you understand your jealousy and how to reduce it significantly.     
Pre-NIN Zoom Only Sunday June 25th 2:00 – 3:30 pm EST

Advance techniques on Hooking up & Closing the deal
You have arrived in a large event with hundreds if not thousands of other couples and suddenly you feel lost…how do you hook up in large events? How do you find, and connect to the couple/s you find hot? How do you gracefully reject those you don’t?! Learn specific techniques to be successful at larger events like hotel takeovers, conventions, and cruises. This workshop will focus on teaching you the different sexual languages and which one is right for you both as an individual & as a couple. Get the inside knowledge from a board-certified sexologist on how to successfully close the deal from start to finish. Discover how to flirt; what to say with confidence, how to negotiate, and how to communicate your desires to get exactly what you want. You will also learn how to gracefully and in a friendly way get out of a sticky situation when someone you are not attracted to approaches you. This workshop will make sure that after travelling this far you actually get what you are looking for!
Pre-NIN Zoom Only Sunday June 25th 5:00 – 6:30 pm EST

Anal & Strap-on Sex for Beginners (private group workshop) 4 spaces left
Bend over for this titillating introductory workshop on anal and strap-on sex. Don’t let your nerves get the best of you, with the right communication and techniques you will totally pin anal sex down!  This workshop will focus on the myths about anal sex, anal anatomy, the million dollar spots, basic preparation and hygiene, lubes, anal toys, safer sex, anal penetration for beginners, choosing the best strap-on for you, how to use a strap-on, and the best anal and strap-on sex positions. This workshop is clothing optional and hands-on, we will actually be practicing as we learn the techniques and the sexologist will give you individual attention. This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Thursday July 6th 12:30-2:00 pm


Sexual Ergonomics: Mastering Sex Positions  (private group workshop) 5 spaces left
Want to master every sex position there is? Sexplore with us and learn the sexual ergonomic techniques that will allow you to become a pro at many sex positions. We promise to take you on a twist and moan ride that will teach you how to get the best angle for g-spot pleasure, clitoral stimulation, and make the guys last longer! This is the perfect group private session for couples that have not been able to do specific positions due to muscle & joint injuries, back problems, surgery, hip or knee replacements. We will also sexplore positions that work well for couples with different levels of flexibility. Get ready to sweat and learn the techniques to give your favorite sexual positions you own unique twist. This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Thursday July 6th 3:30 – 5:00 pm


Sexplore your Kink: Percussion Play & Orgasms
Do you want to surrender in the dungeon and discover the sensual desire of blissful intensity? Curious about kinky sex but not sure where to start? Prepare yourself for a seductive sexual journey to master the art of percussion play. You will be able to tantalize your partner by giving them the most powerful pleasurable sensual experience. In this hands-on experience you will learn various sensual touch techniques, and erotic strokes that will send electric chills of pleasure up and down your loved one. Learn full body erotic percussion touch, breath & energy work, and sensation play. This group private session will concentrate on teaching you the basic notions and techniques of impact & percussion play. Percussion play can be a more fun and lighthearted area of BDSM, or it can be heavier and more serious if desired. Involving light to heavy spanking, whipping, caning, and flogging, percussion play is a form of BDSM activity that can be safe. We will focus on learning the basics of kinky sex: simple bondage, domination & submission, spanking, flogging, how to set the scene, blindfolds, negotiation techniques, and safety tips. This clothing optional hands-on workshop will take place in the dungeon where we will be practicing all the techniques. A board certified sexologist with years of experience as a dungeon monitor will give you individualized attention and guide you on a journey that will take you to the edge and back as you exchange sensual power with your partner in a ritual of sexual surrender and domination. This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Thursday July 6th 5:30 – 7:00 pm


The art of Nuru Massage 2 spaces left
Do you want to surrender and discover the sensual desire of blissful intensity? Prepare yourself for a seductive sexual journey to master the art of nuru massage. Nuru is a form of erotic massage with full body contact while both are nude and coated with gel, traditionally made from seaweed. You will be able to tantalize your partner by giving them the most powerful pleasurable sensual experience. In this hands-on workshop you will learn various sensual touch techniques, and erotic strokes that will send electric chills of pleasure up and down your loved one. Learn full body erotic conscious sensual touch, breath & energy work, and sensation play. You deserve this moment of exquisite enjoyment, indulge your senses, embrace the pleasure, and awaken to a profound connection with your partner. If you choose to you can practice as a group (4 or more), consent from every person in the group will required. You still need to register separately and indicate that you would like to practice as a group in the comments section. You can only register to this workshop as a couple or a triad.  This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Friday July 7th 12:15 – 1:45 pm

Squirting & Cumming*We have 2 groups available Group 1: 2 spaces left Group 2: 4 spaces left
This is not a waterproof group private session so be ready to get wet! You will have your partner at your fingertips begging for more! This is our most popular offering where you will learn the moves & techniques that will make you an expert in g-spot squirting. You will also learn about deep penetration orgasms, and clitoris stimulation. Push those orgasmic buttons by discovering exactly where those million-dollar spots are located. We 100% guarantee you that Den will show you how to find and stimulate the g-spot. In this experiential session, we share info, tips and techniques to help you find your lover’s hot spots… and what to do when you get there! Individual attention given to each couple to show you exactly where your partners g-spot is. **Attendance to Science Behind Fucking free seminar is a requirement to sign up to this workshop** This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques. 
Group 1 Friday July 6th   2:00 – 3:30 pm / Group 2 3:30 – 5:00 pm 

SexplorePleasureRevolution

Blow jobs & Muff dives 2 spaces left
Dive into the wonderful world of oral sex and master the delicious world of oral pleasures! This workshop is all about oral sex get ready to learn new techniques for mouths ~ lips ~ tongues ~ throats. With decades of personal and professional sexperience a board-certified sexologist will make sure that during this practical mouths-on workshop you will expand your knowledge about specific positions to last longer during oral sex as well as sexplore the secret to stop gagging & start deep-throating! You will learn sucking, nibbling, licking, tongue tapping, blowing, and lip-smacking techniques that will drive a clitoris wild and the cock crazy with pleasure. We will actually be practicing as we learn the techniques and the sexologist will give you individual attention. This is a mouths-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Friday July 7th 6:00-7:30 pm  

Penis Pleasure, Erections & Prostate Orgasm.*We have 2 groups available
Group 1: 2 spaces left Group 2: 4 spaces left
This group private session is all about penises, erections, and prostates! Have you ever experienced a bit of performance anxiety and couldn’t be ready as fast as you wished? This workshop will teach you a unique technique based on scientific research that will help you jump start an erection without any medication when you are experiencing performance anxiety. Ever heard of men being able to have multiple orgasms? We will teach you how to have an orgasm without ejaculating! Curious about prostate play? Den will show you about prostate pleasure that includes both external and internal techniques. This is a hands-on workshop where you will learn hand-job penis mastery and prostate techniques. We will actually be practicing as we learn the techniques and the sexologist will give you individual attention **Attendance to Science Behind Fucking free seminar is a requirement to sign up to this workshop**
This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Group 1 Saturday July 8th  12:30 – 2:00 pm / Group 2 2:00 – 3:30 pm

Drip with Pleasure: Introduction to Temperature Play(private group workshop)
Temperature play is an incredibly seductive and deeply beautiful means to connect with your partner/s. It is a sensual form of play where the sensation of hot wax dripped onto the skin can be highly arousing. We will also be playing with cold temperatures through ice. The body becomes a canvas for you to explore and experience the journey of becoming a titillating work of art as your partner becomes the artist. This beginner’s workshop will be an introduction to wax & ice play where we will learn techniques to enhance control, safety, and pleasure. We will focus on learning about preparing the space to become a sensual environment, dripping styles, safety when playing with wax, types of wax and how they differ in sensation and heat, temperature play enhancements, the manner in which temperature and the sensation of wax & ice affects the body/nervous system, wax removal, and clean-up.
This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional group private session there is a limited capacity of spots available. You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques. Wax and prep materials used during the workshop are included within the cost.
Saturday July 8th  4:00 – 5:30 pm


Taoist Sexual Rituals & Tantric Journeys
We all carry sexual energy within us, what is yours? How are you transforming your relationship through a more intimate sexual connection? After spending a month in Southeast Asia studying Taoist sexuality with a Master as well as a couple of months in India deepening my tantric knowledge I would like to take you on a unique spiritual sexual journey to deepen the intimacy and connection of your relationship. Come Sexplore your sexual spiritual energy, in our hands-on workshop as we learn diverse breathing techniques, authentic intimacy, erotic rituals to open your sexual chakras, do exercises in sensual energy exchange that will set you on your sexual path of multi-orgasmic bliss and a deeper connection to your loved one. Whether you have previously engaged in a path of sacred sexuality or this is your first time coming into this space this workshop will welcome you with open chakras. Be part of a movement of conscious and mindful sexuality. Join us in a divine experience to integrate your sexual energy to a cosmic ecstasy. This workshop is clothing optional and hands-on, we will actually engage in a facilitated ritual. Whether you have previously engaged in a path of sacred sexuality or this is your first time coming into this space this workshop will welcome you with open chakras. Be part of a movement of conscious and mindful sexuality. Join us in a divine experience to integrate your sexual energy to a cosmic ecstasy.
This is a hands-on ~ clothing optional workshop there is a limited capacity of spots available.
You will actually be practicing the techniques. Each couple will have focused individual time with the sexologist in order to develop personal techniques.
Saturday July 8th  6:00 – 7:30 pm 

Swingercast - Swinging Hot Sex.

Have you ever wondered  what goes on in a Sexplore hands-on  Taoist Sexual Ritual & Tantric Journeys workshop? Swingercast podcast featured Sexplore with Den Temin and interviewed Sexplorers who participated in our Tantric Journeys workshop at Naughty in N’awlins  2015. (psst click the image to listen to the audio podcast) 

For those of you who don’t know swingercast, it’s a podcast of the sexual adventures of  John and Allie and the experiences and sexy friends they meet in the Swinging Lifestyle.

 

Sexplore Porn – Group Peep Show (private group workshop)
Are you tired of the same old porn? Can’t find porn that shows real acts, with people that look just like you? Did you stop watching porn because you couldn’t take the close-ups only anymore? Want a different alternative to Pornhub? Join us for an evening of quality & provocative smut. Sexplore steamy clips in a way you don’t normally get to… in public with a bunch of naughty people on a big screen. Den will introduce you to new smut, and amazing performances produced by talented pornographers. Learn about different pornographers, genres, and expand your knowledge to include porn that takes into account everyone’s pleasure!  We will have a screening and discussion of different films that have been nominated to various international Porn festivals. All porn has been carefully selected to present to you an evening of curated clips for your enjoyment. Mix learning with pleasure as we showcase a variety of sizzling ethical porn made all over the world!
Saturday July 8th 8:00-9:30 pm